I am a pre-everything transguy. I am working on starting T. My wife is very supportive as well as our two children. I have also gotten a lot of support from my online friends. I tried to true to myself when I was about 12. I was denied that right. So I shut myself down and retreated into denial until I met my wife. It took a few years, but I have decided to be who I really am no matter what others think. One cannot live one’s life for others. I want my children to see me as a strong confident person who was true to himself.